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Aging And Estate Planning For Singles And Couples Without Children

Rocco A. Carrieroby Rocco A. Carriero
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Whether you’re married or widowed, divorced or single, it’s important to have the right documents in place to ensure that you have the help and care you need as you age—and that your estate is handled in the way you want. If you don’t have children, who often become caregivers and beneficiaries, making arrangements for your care and estate often requires more thought and planning.

To help ensure you’re well prepared, you may want to take the following six steps:

1. Choose your advocates wisely: When determining who will help you with your housing arrangements, medical, dental, financial affairs and estate planning, select people you can trust. Whether your support team includes your spouse or partner, a sibling or other relative, friends or a trustee, make sure everyone knows—and will support—your preferences. If the people you enlist are close to you in age, appoint younger backups in case someone becomes unable to carry out his or her responsibilities.

2. Set up a health care proxy: Also known as a health care power of attorney, this document enables you to appoint someone to make medical decisions on your behalf if you become unable to do so. Be sure to authorize this person to view your medical records. Your proxy should include instructions on tissue and organ donation, as well as special instructions about any medical interventions or treatments you don’t want to receive.

3. Consider creating a durable power of attorney document: You have the ability to designate an attorney-in-fact, which is someone you name in a power of attorney document. You can empower this person to make financial decisions on your behalf, and decide if you want this power to become effective immediately, or at a future date — the most common being in the event you become mentally incapacitated. If you don’t designate someone and you become incapacitated, the courts may appoint a guardian for you. A court appointed guardian may be less than ideal because he or she might not have been your first choice (and may not have known you prior to your incapacitation). This lack of knowledge may increase the chances that decisions could be made that you (or someone who knew you better) would not have made on your behalf.

4. Purchase long-term care insurance: It can help you afford the type of care you desire if your health begins to fail. Long-term care insurance helps to pay for services needed for chronic care that are not generally covered by health insurance, Medicare or Medicaid. This can include home care, assisted living, adult daycare, respite care, hospice care and nursing home and memory care facilities. Your policy may also provide additional benefits that appeal to you.

5. Decide how your assets will be distributed: Whether you want to establish a foundation in your name or leave your assets to charity, your spouse, a partner, extended family members or friends, you may want to create a will. An attorney can help you draw up a will that specifies how and to whom your assets will be distributed. Without a will in place, your estate will be handled according to the statutes of the state in which you reside, which may not align with your goals. It’s also a good idea to review your beneficiaries to make sure they’re current on all accounts. Consult with an attorney or other expert to determine if you need a will for your legacy goals.

6. Create a gifting plan: Your estate plan can include strategies for giving financial gifts before or after your death. Under 2014 federal tax law, you can gift up to $14,000 per person to as many people as you would like without gift tax consequences. You can also pay college tuition for anyone without being subject to gift taxes or using any of your annual or lifetime gift tax exclusions, as long as you directly pay the institution.

For help creating financial strategies that support your goals as you age and distribute your estate, consult with your financial professional. A financial advisor can work with your tax and legal representatives to help ensure your wishes are met in efficient ways.

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  • Dust off your favorite witch’s hat and opt for a paddleboard instead of a broom for Paddle Diva & Wych’s Bloom’s inaugural Witches Paddle on Wednesday, October 29, from 4–6 p.m. at Paddle Diva (10 Boat Yard Rd., East Hampton, NY). A portion of the proceeds will go to the Surfrider Foundation’s Eastern Long Island Chapter and its efforts to protect the world’s oceans, waves, and beaches through dedicated activism. ⁠
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We’ve all seen Witches Paddles grace our social media feeds, and now you can partake in the spooky fun! This tradition combines Halloween vibes with the healing power of nature as you glide and take in the beautiful Three Mile Harbor views.⁠
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Gina Bradley excitedly shared, “I am thrilled to be hosting this at Paddle Diva’s permanent location inside Swan’s Marina (formerly Vanderveer’s). This kind of paddle has been on my mind for many years, as I’ve seen them in all parts of the world, and it looks so cool seeing all the witches gracefully gliding along the water. This is particularly exciting because we’ve joined forces with Wych’s Bloom, a local herbal apothecary brand, and Surfrider to raise money and awareness for ocean and clean bay initiatives that are crucial for our waters on the East End of Long Island.”⁠
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“As an herbalist, Samhain, or Halloween, offers a special occasion for me to celebrate the healers who came before us to teach the wisdom of the plants in our region. I had seen people gathering for Witches Paddles all over the country, and as a surfer, I connected instantly with these events. When I texted Gina the idea, she was immediately in. That’s what I love about the women on the East End—they’re always up for an adventure,” shared Wych’s Bloom owner and Surfrider Foundation board member Christina Winters.⁠
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Join us in taking part in this one-of-a-kind event! Craft a witch’s outfit and set sail at the inaugural Witches Paddle for a great cause.⁠
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  • Check out the top Hamptons events this weekend!⁠
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🍎 Wölffer’s Cider Fest⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 2–5PM⁠
📍 The Wine Stand, Sagaponack⁠
Sip cider, enjoy live music, games, and lobster rolls!⁠
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🍦 Buddhaberry’s Spooktacular Costume Party⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 2–4PM⁠
📍 Buddhaberry, Southampton⁠
Bingo, trivia & costume prizes galore!⁠
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👻 Haunted Village⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 11AM–4PM⁠
📍 Southampton History Museum⁠
Ghost stories, pumpkin carving & trick-or-treating!⁠
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🧙‍♀️ CMEE’s Halloween Bash⁠
📅 Fri, Oct 24 | ⏰ 4–6PM⁠
📍 CMEE, Bridgehampton⁠
Spooky crafts, games & costume contest!⁠
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🎬 The Horror Show at Sunset Theater⁠
📅 Oct 24–30⁠
📍 Westhampton Beach⁠
7 nights of scary movies 🍿⁠
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🎧 Halloween Silent Disco Dance Party⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 7–10PM⁠
📍 Guild Hall, East Hampton⁠
3 channels, endless grooves—disco, funk & more!⁠
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🐾 Canines in Costume at LongHouse Reserve⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 10:30AM–12:30PM⁠
📍 East Hampton⁠
Dress up your pup + enjoy treats & fun!⁠
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🎃 Bridgehampton Halloween Parade⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 10–11AM⁠
📍 Hampton Library, Bridgehampton⁠
Trick-or-treat parade down Main Street!⁠
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🎸 The Cherry Bombs at The Stephen Talkhouse⁠
📅 Fri, Oct 24 | ⏰ 8PM⁠
📍 Amagansett⁠
Rock out all night! 🤘⁠
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🌲 Enchanted Forest Trail⁠
📅 Oct 25–26 | ⏰ 12–1:30PM⁠
📍 Quogue Wildlife Refuge⁠
Costume walk + crafts + games!⁠
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🥁 Annual Ragamuffin Parade⁠
📅 Sun, Oct 26 | ⏰ 1PM⁠
📍 Sag Harbor⁠
Parade fun for all ages + pets!⁠
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🐶 Little Lucy’s Annual Pet Parade⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 1–4PM⁠
📍 Agawam Park, Southampton⁠
Prizes, live music & celebrity judges!⁠
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🕸️ Solé East’s Halloween Party⁠
📅 Sat, Oct 25 | ⏰ 8PM⁠
📍 Montauk⁠
Win a free weekend stay for best costume!⁠
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🍁 Centro’s Fall Festival⁠
📅 Sun, Oct 26 | ⏰ 12–5PM⁠
📍 Hampton Bays⁠
Pumpkin decorating, drinks & local vendors!⁠
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  • East Hampton’s streets came alive with wagging tails and smiling faces for ARF’s 32nd Annual Stroll to the Sea Dog Walk. Families, friends, and their dogs gathered at the historic Mulford Farm, where the morning kicked off with vendors, photo ops, custom merchandise, contests, and prizes.

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  • Last Saturday, Wölffer held its annual harvest party at its scenic vineyard in Sagaponack. The annual fest brought together friends, families, and wine lovers to toast the season and harvest behind every bottle of Wölffer wine.⁠
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  • From Hollywood red carpets to Milan exhibits and Hamptons fashion shoots, Filbert Kung has photographed the world—but it’s his quiet, unguarded, and attentive nature that reveals the artist behind the lens.⁠ @filbert_kung 
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I met Filbert Diego Kung at a Grey/Ven fashion event in Amagansett last summer. He’s one of those rare photographers who instantly puts you at ease—calm, composed, and naturally good at making anyone feel like they belong in front of his lens. Had I known then just how in-demand Filbert is in the fashion and photography world, I probably wouldn’t have asked him to snap a few shots of me goofing off on the red carpet. But maybe that makes me a model? Either way, it was my first glimpse of how effortlessly he captures people as they are. In my case, goofy-but-make-it-chic.⁠
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Since then, I’ve seen him popping up around the Hamptons, often between flights to LA, Miami, or wherever the next big editorial or campaign takes him. Originally from the Philippines, Filbert has spent over fifteen years building a career that bridges Hollywood red carpets, high-fashion editorials, and fine art portraiture. ⁠
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  • From fall festivals to concerts, a lot is happening in the Hamptons this weekend! ⁠
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Check out the top Hamptons events this weekend!⁠
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🎃 Fall Festival at Good Ground Park⁠
📍 Hampton Bays | 🗓️ Fri, Oct 17 | 🕓 4–6PM⁠
Bring your pre-carved pumpkin & compete for prizes! Games, food truck, costume parade & more!⁠
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🍷 Wölffer’s Candlelight Fridays⁠
📍 Sagaponack | 🗓️ Fri, Oct 17 | 🕓 4–7PM⁠
Live music, seasonal pairings & cozy vibes 🍁⁠
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🖼️ Like No One: Michael McDowell Exhibition⁠
📍 East Hampton | 🗓️ Oct 17–19⁠
🎉 Opening reception: Sat, Oct 18 | 4–8PM⁠
Fine art lovers, don’t miss this!⁠
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📚 BookHampton: Caroline Sutton in Conversation⁠
📍 East Hampton | 🗓️ Sat, Oct 18 | 🕕 6PM⁠
Nature meets literature in this insightful author talk.⁠
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👟 Shelter Island Fall 5K Run/Walk⁠
📍 Shelter Island | 🗓️ Sat, Oct 18 | 🕚 11AM–2PM⁠
Run/walk for a cause—supporting Breast Cancer Awareness 💗⁠
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🏛️ 32nd Annual Landmarks Luncheon⁠
📍 Maidstone Club | 🗓️ Sat, Oct 18 | 🕦 11:30AM–2:30PM⁠
Hosted by LVIS, spotlighting the history of East Hampton’s Freetown.⁠
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🍂 Amber Waves’ Oktoberfeast⁠
📍 Amagansett | 🗓️ Sat, Oct 18 | 🕑 2–5PM⁠
Seasonal dishes, live music, dancing & games 🎶⁠
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🎻 BCM Autumn: Brooklyn Rider⁠
📍 Bridgehampton | 🗓️ Sat, Oct 18 | 🕔 5–6:30PM⁠
A powerful string quartet performance you won’t want to miss.⁠
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🍷 Cab Franc Forward Winemaker’s Dinner⁠
📍 Shelter Island | 🗓️ Sun, Oct 19 | 🕔 5PM⁠
Multi-course dinner + Cab Franc pairings = 🍽️🍇 perfection⁠
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✨ So much happening this weekend — which event are you heading to first?⁠
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