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May 20, 2021

INTERVIEW: Author Amanda M. Fairbanks Talks “The Lost Boys Of Montauk”

T.J. Clementeby T.J. Clemente
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East End-based journalist Amanda M. Fairbanks has written her first narrative nonfiction book, The Lost Boys of Montauk. In an interview with Hamptons.com, Fairbanks went into great detail how it all came about. She is a Smith College graduate, a school with strong literary routes nestled up in the Northampton, Massachusetts. She has a strong, clear speaking voice and presence. Perhaps one day she may find herself working for Sixty Minutes, or a show like that because she is also a compelling journalist.

It’s always interesting how an author finds a story for book. The genesis behind this book is pure both East End of Long Island and detail oriented – and Fairbanks shared it. She said, “This book actually started taking shape when I was a staff writer. I am a longtime newspaper, magazine writer, and I have worked at all different places. For a few years, I was happy to call The East Hampton Star my home, and I worked there as a staff writer for about three and a half years. The book actually started taking place, although I didn’t really know it at the time, in the winter of 2016. I was having a sort of brainstorm conversation with an editor, Biddle Duke, who is also in the book, who had recently joined the staff to launch East Magazine. During this conversation, he started describing to me what he quoted as ‘the great untold story of the so-called Hamptons.’ He sat up a little taller in his chair and his eyes widened as he started talking to me about this fishing boat, Wind Blown, that had gone off the coast of Montauk in 1984 with four young men aboard.” They crossed path with a nor’easter and neither the boat nor the men were ever found.

The Lost Boys of Montauk. (Courtesy Photo)

She continued by saying, “During the same conversation, and this is what really piqued my interest, he started talking to me about Mary Stedman, who is the widow of the captain. He explained for the story I would need to get Mary’s blessing and participation. So, I reached out to Mary, but the timing wasn’t right. My family and I moved to California (where Fairbanks is from) and stayed loosely in touch with Mary. It wasn’t until the following summer that I had the pleasure of sitting down with her. Mary, who has a photographic memory, and by spending three to four hour chucks of time on the phone, after every one of those conversations, she would pass me five sources and then five more after that. Pretty soon I had tens of thousands of interview notes. It was at that time, I realized it just wasn’t a newspaper or magazine story I had at my hands, but the beginning of a book.”

Fairbanks, then using what she called “a whole lot of gumshoe reporting and hard work thereafter,” put The Lost Boys of Montauk together as book. When asked what the veteran reporter learned while doing this project, she said, “I think one of the surprising things I learned is just how it is that tragedies live with us, whether we were intimately involved with various people or it occurred in the town in which we live in. For instance, it wasn’t just the survivors of the men and the families left behind after this tragedy that obviously remember this very closely, it was the folks like the lighthouse keeper, meaning everyone that was living there at the time. It was like it was a local version of 9/11/2001. They know where they were standing when they heard the news. They recalled the date that the boat had gone down, even though it was now 40 years in the future. That was quite surprising to me. Just the lasting effect of this one incident over such a long span of time.”

Fairbanks said she has no target audience noting the book is “for men as well as women.” She added, “There is a fair amount of fishing, surfing and issues relating to fathers and sons that I think will be compelling for all readerships. I wrote it for people like myself, who live here on the East End, and absolutely love this place, but I also wrote it for the reader in Iowa, who has never and likely will never set foot here. I tried to bring them along on the story as well, because I do think it is indicative of many small towns in America and class divisions. I am hoping it will have some national appeal.”

She is excited to be doing some local promotional appearances and talks about the book, including at the Montauk Lighthouse on Thursday, July 1 and at Guild Hall in East Hampton on Sunday, July 11. There will also be a virtual BookHampton talk on Tuesday, May 25 at 5:00 p.m., virtual East End Libraries (Mattituck-Laurel Library + East Hampton Library) book event on Friday, June 11 at 7:00 p.m., and Fairbanks will join Hampton Library’s virtual Fridays at Five series on Friday, July 9 at 5:00 p.m.

Fairbanks is a masterful storyteller with a distinctive, clear voice. More great things are surely in her future. Her talent is a refined ability to connect, either by print or with the spoken word.

For more information, visit www.amandamfairbanks.com.

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  • 💘 Valentine’s Weekend in the Hamptons 💘⁠
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🎨 Take Flight Art Show⁠
📅 Friday, February 13, 2026⁠
📍 Java Nations, 112 Maple Ln, Bridgehampton⁠
View local art by local artists while sipping Java Nation’s decadent coffee.⁠
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🎬 A Special Screening of The Princess Bride⁠
📅 Saturday, February 14, 2026⁠
⏰ 7PM–8:40PM⁠
📍 Guild Hall, 158 Main St, East Hampton⁠
End the perfect Valentine’s Day with a special screening of this beloved classic.⁠
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🦭 Seal Cruise in Southampton⁠
📅 Sunday, February 15, 2026⁠
⏰ 12PM–2PM⁠
📍 Stony Brook Marine Station, 8 Little Neck Rd, Southampton⁠
Join a Coastal Research and Education Society of Long Island scientist for a 2-hour expedition focused on seals in Shinnecock Bay.⁠
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🎶 Latin-Inspired Dinner & Live Music at The Clubhouse Hamptons⁠
📅 Friday, February 14, 2026⁠
⏰ 7PM–10PM⁠
📍 The Clubhouse, 174 Daniels Hole Rd, East Hampton⁠
Enjoy a $40 prix-fixe dinner with live band Conjunto La Herencia. At 10PM, dance the night away with Nick Corredor and Smith Jozy at the DJ booth.⁠
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💌 Dear Jack, Dear Louise⁠
📅 February 13–15, 2026⁠
⏰ 2PM & 7PM⁠
📍 Southampton Arts Center, 25 Jobs Lane, Southampton⁠
The perfect gift for your loved one—experience a moving WWII love story.⁠
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🍷 Valentine’s Sip & Paint at Wölffer⁠
📅 Sunday, February 15, 2026⁠
⏰ 3PM⁠
📍 Wölffer Estate, 139 Sagg Rd, Sagaponack⁠
Create your own Valentine’s Day card and enjoy a complimentary glass of Rosé.⁠
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🥾 Amsterdam State Park Hike⁠
📅 Saturday, February 14, 2026⁠
⏰ 10AM–11:30AM⁠
📍 Montauk Point State Blvd (Route 27), turn right at the Amsterdam sign (across from Deep Hollow Ranch)⁠
Explore Amsterdam State Park with a short, scenic hike.⁠
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✨ Tag your Valentine (or your weekend crew) and make plans!⁠
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#valentinesday #hamptons #weekend #wine #rosé
  • This past month, @thequoguewildliferefuge held their annual Light The Night Winter Walk. People braved the cold and enjoyed a relaxing illuminated walk and warmed up  with @hamptoncoffee hot chocolate. The refuge also invited people to explore their Ice Harvesting exhibit. #quoguewildliferefuge #nightwalk #quogue #lightthenight #winter
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We’re all bombarded with New Year, New Me posts on Instagram and TikTok as health takes center stage in everyone’s 2026 goals. Many choose to participate in “Dry January,” a challenge that encourages participants to take a break from alcohol. Non-alcoholic alternatives are also a great option for those who want to join the bar crawl without the stigma of holding a water bottle. With help from our friends at Kidd Squid Brewery, we sampled a variety of options at their tasting room in Sag Harbor. Here are our top picks.⁠
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1. Wölffer Estate: Spring in a Bottle Rose⁠
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You can’t go anywhere in the Hamptons without grabbing a glass of Wolffer’s iconic Rosé. Don’t fret! You can still enjoy the iconic, vibrant, fruity taste with their non-alcoholic version. ⁠
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Tasting notes: It’s no surprise that it is a favorite in The Hamptons. The lack of alcohol doesn’t affect the rich, elegant rose, peach, and apple notes. This is a delicious, fresh, sparkling rosé.⁠
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2. Hedlum⁠
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Is a locally owned company that produces crispy non-alcoholic beers that perfectly mirror their alcoholic counterparts. I tried their Easy Down Lager, and it was perfect!⁠
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Tasting notes: It pours out like a beer with a nice frothy top layer. It is crisp and smooth and reminds me of a Sapporo.⁠
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3. Aplós⁠
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Another locally owned company that produces non-alcoholic drinks crafted by award-winning mixologists. I fell in love with their credo, “Life should be sipped slowly.” I tried their Chili Margarita and loved the sparkling citrus notes with a bit of a kick. It’s infused with adaptogens and nootropics, which are thought to reduce stress, elevate your mood, and overall just deliver that perfect chill for any social setting.⁠
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Tasting notes: Crisp and tangy, with very strong citrus notes, this reminded me of kombucha. It was very refreshing.⁠
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#dryjanuary #nonalcoholic #aplos  #hedlum #springinabottle
  • Experience seals in their natural environment! The New York State Office of Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation is pleased to announce that Montauk Point State Park will host a series of hikes to observe wintering seals. Beginning in January 2026 and continuing through April 2026, a State Park naturalist will lead visitors on a scenic beach walk to an area where up to five species of seals can be observed. ⁠
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  • When Jesse Bongiovi launched Hampton Water Wine Co. with his dad, Jon Bon Jovi, in 2018, he helped redefine what modern rosé could look and feel like—sun-soaked, effortless, and rooted in moments shared with the people you love.⁠
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Now, with the growth of Lily Pond Group, he’s expanding that vision far beyond the bottle. Influenced by years spent in the Hamptons’ uniquely relaxed and refined culture, Jesse’s approach to brand-building is all about capturing a feeling: the blend of ease, taste, and connection that defines a perfect summer day out East.⁠
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With Lily Pond Group’s emerging portfolio—including Hampton Water, Five Springs, and Mezcal Mezul—Jesse is shaping brands that stand for more than just good drinks. They’re grounded in storytelling, authenticity, and community, with the kind of cultural resonance that turns a product into a lifestyle.⁠
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Jesse spoke more about how he got started, how the Hamptons informed his approach, and what he sees on the horizon for the next generation of lifestyle brands.⁠
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When did you come up with the concept for Hampton Water and decide to move forward with it?⁠
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JB: We saw an opportunity to change the narrative around rosé and the idea of “rosé season.” We wanted something sophisticated but still fun and easygoing, something that reflected the lifestyle we love. When we connected with Gérard Bertrand, it all clicked. The quality in the juice matched the story we wanted to tell, and that’s when we knew we had something special.⁠
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Read the full interview at Hamptons.com (Link in Bio)⁠
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  • Pitch Your Peers (PYP) Hamptons Chapter, a philanthropy initiative, awarded two local non-profits at its 3rd annual Pitch Day on October 25th at Scoville Hall in Amagansett. Philanthropic women from the community are the driving force behind PYP The Hamptons. They identify and champion local non-profits that qualify for its annual collective grant. The grant pool for 2025 was $60,000. ⁠
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PYP Members identified and pitched local organizations to be considered for their grant on Pitch Day on October 25th. Members voted, and this year’s first-place award of $50,000 was presented to The Retreat, while a second-place award of $10,000 was presented to Share the Harvest Farm. ⁠
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Read the full article at Hamptons.com (Link in Bio)⁠
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#pitchyourpeers #hamptons #nonprofits #local #sharetheharvest
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